Thursday, July 24, 2008

Friends.. reason... season.. forever

There are ppl who come into your life for a reason, some friends are there for a reason, and some are there forever... i think this is what it was.. not sure.. one of my friends had forwarded this thought to me.. and then we had palyed this game... which friend in our circle fits into what category...

At that time it was a game.. but actually if you think about it.. its true... as in you can think about it and not think that its silly.. do you get it? Anyway, today on the way back from work, was thinking about this...

There are so many ppl in life who you just come across.... frequency, wavelength doesnt match.. if you didnt have to interact with them for some reason, then you would just go past them without ever knowing them!!!!! Its a coincidence.. knowing them!!! There are many ppl i can count who would fall in this category!! Its weird at times... And once you know them, you think life would not be complete if i had not known this person.. or something like that!!!!! So they are there in your life for a season i guess (debatable).... but you cannot imagine that period of life without them...!! So i was with a set of ppl .. so different from me.. completely ... poles apart types in terms of everything.. behaviour, thoughts everything... but i cant imagine being without them at this juncture in life.. i look forward to meeting them everytime!!!!

Another set of ppl who come into your life for a reason... now this i think does work.. i think someone.. or something.. triggered my marriage to my husband!!! So that person definitely came in for a reason...

And of course, throughout your life, there will be some ppl you will always be in touch with.. always... maybe you might speak to them after 2 months.. but you can carry on as if it were just yesterday.. it ceases to matter... these ppl are really special.. all others are too... but just that special bond you create.. which doesnt break but just takes the shape of the relationship (I am very abstract today!!!! Must be the pune trip)... and very weird but life kind of runs parallel with them.. you would say one thing.. and the other person would also be thinking on the same lines!!! Its strange....

7 comments:

Scarlett said...

Errr...who are these people who were "completely different from you..poles apart in everything..but you look forward to meeting them everytime"??

Lol :))

Moonshine said...

Not you!!!! You and I are more similar!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :-) I also said "wavelength may not match"

Scarlett said...

Lol...Just checking :)

utopia said...

forever friends. they'd always be around. you could start off from anywhere as if you just met them around the corner.

Moonshine said...

Thats so very true!!! Any day, any time.. doesnt matter.. just a phone call away!!!!

Priya said...

hey ...have been reading your blogs...got addicted to it...keep checking everyday for a newer one:)

Moonshine said...

Must show husband this comment of yours!!! Thanks!!!!!!!!!1 And keep reading.. as of now looks like i can sustain it!!! :-)